What to Buy for the Bride and Groom: A Gift Giving Guide
By April Eddleman
What should you spend, what should you buy, and where should you go? We’ve got these answers and more to help you give the gifts that every bride and groom want!
1. Keep it simple.
Though you may be tempted to get creative with your gift, an overwhelming majority of couples, 85% in fact, wish guests would buy directly from their wish list. Some shoppers feel that buying items on the bride and groom’s wedding registry is stale and boring, but the couple is registered for a crock pot and a corkscrew because they genuinely need these things! Give them what they really want and you can’t go wrong.
2. If you do have to get creative…
If you still can’t stand the idea of buying directly from the registry, consider purchasing one item that the couple has listed and adding a simple twist. If it’s wine glasses they want, include a complimentary membership to a wine of the month club. Do they need new pots and pans? Purchase a bakeware set and throw in a cute pair of potholders, a cake mix, and a superb stew recipe. Or buy that blender you know they’d love and add a bottle of margarita mix and a set of fun straws.
3. Honeymoon alternatives.
Another anti-registry option is to purchase perks that the couple can use on their honeymoon. Treat them to a day at the spa, snorkeling lessons, or a romantic dinner for two. You can also include items like beach towels, bathing suits, a digital camera, or a new set of luggage. Scrapbooks and photo albums are another great choice as the bride and groom will want to preserve their vacation memories!
4. Make it a group effort.
Think you can’t afford to buy that big screen TV or backyard barbeque set? Consider splitting the cost with others. If you’re a co-worker of the bride’s, ask the invited cubicle dwellers around you to pitch in. If you’re the groom’s former fraternity brother, have his other college friends contribute to the cost. If you’re an aunt, uncle, or other relative, check with kin to see whether two or three more members of the family would like to help purchase a more lavish gift.
5. Get cute with cash.
If you’re just not sure what to get the bride and groom, money is still a much appreciated token. But instead of just stuffing a wad of bills or a personal check into a card, be creative. If you hope they’ll spend the dough during their honeymoon, place the money in a clear bottle and fill it with sand and small shells. Or if you’d like to donate toward the down payment on the couple’s new house, include a key in your envelope or hide several dollar bills in a pile of packing peanuts and place them in a small moving box.
6. Easy does it.
The best way to give your gift is before the wedding. The new Mr. and Mrs. will most likely be heading straight from the reception hall to the honeymoon and they’ll have no place to store the gifts presented on their wedding day. Whether you’re shopping in the store or buying online, it’s best to have your gift shipped directly to the couple (to either their current address, if already residing together, or to their parents’ address for forwarding).
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